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Have you ever had to deal with running into “The Other Person”?  I found out about my husbands affair July 2004 and even though she lived in the same town I never ran into her.  We run in VERY different circles.  But this year it’s much different. Her son plays 7th grade football, my two play [...]

I believe that it needs to be written down on paper. It needs to be a detailed account of the total affair: how it started, how it developed, the justifications used for allowing themselves to be in the affair, how they hid the affair, what you and the Affair Partner talked about, where you went [...]

Wayward Spouse’s are usually afraid to say and tell all, as they don’t want to cause great pain for their spouse. Most wayward spouses probably want to run away from the pain they see in you because it causes them pain too. What some Wayward Spouse’s don’t realize is that lying and lying by omission [...]

The “No Contact Letter” should be written in the Wayward Spouse’s own handwriting. It really should be sent certified. Remember, this isn’t a “goodbye forever love letter” but it’s really stating that the affair is over, it was wrong, you were selfish, you love your spouse and family very much and you want to make [...]

I believe that the answer is YES it really can BUT it takes a lot of hard work from both spouse’s. There will be healing that needs to be done together along with the healing of each individual. There are steps that can be taken to heal the hurt and pain an affair causes. It [...]

Is your spouse caught up in an affair and they won’t quit? Are they on the fence and bouncing between you and the other person? Would you like them to stop seeing the other person for good? You should look at infidelity as an addiction and treat it as such. An affair is [...]

How To Run A Reverse Cell Phone Lookup Are you suspicious that your spouse is cheating on you?  Do you want to prove that they are seeing someone else?  There is a quick and easy method to prove once and for all that you are right.  All you need to do is get the phone number [...]

Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #8-10 of the top 10 red [...]

Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #5-7 of the top 10 red [...]

Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here #4 of the top 10 red [...]

Do you have a sinking feeling that your spouse might be cheating on you but you just aren’t sure? There are many signs of a cheating spouse and if you get to really know them and watch for them you’ll be able to catch them in the affair. Here 1-3 of the top 10 red [...]

Confronting the Other Person You are NOT going to want to do this face to face.  I do not ever tell anyone to do this face to face.  Emotions can really go wild and you will find yourself behaving in ways you wish you never did.  It’s better to either write a letter or an email.  [...]

Is Confronting Mean? A lot of people think that exposing the affair to all these people is mean.  I will tell you that your spouse will become VERY ugly when they find out about all the people you have been telling.  They are this way because, number one, they don’t want their fantasy to end and [...]

Who to Tell Your family, your spouse’s family, your friends, his/her friends, his/her boss or work, colleagues, your church family, the other person’s family and friends, etc.  Just know that you are not “spouse bashing”, this is not where you run and tell everyone you come across what a horrible spouse you have.  That is not [...]

Confronting Your Spouse Before confronting your spouse be sure to have rock solid evidence so they can’t start denying it and then try and get you to feel “crazy” and that it’s all in your head.  When you are confronting them you are not blaming, accusing, or being disrespectful.  You are making factual statements about your [...]