How Could They Do This To Me? The problem with thinking that they
did this “to you” is that it implies intent which usually is not
there. Usually, someone doesn’t wake up and think to themselves,
“How can I really hurt my spouse today? I know, I’ll have an
affair.” This rarely ever happens, instead [...]
Date Published: Feb 08, 2012 - 9:24 am
What is “Affair Fog” Anyway? This term is used
by both experts and affair victims. It describes the euphoria that
one feels when they are involved in an affair. Remember how it felt
when you first fell in love? During this time, the one having an
affair will rationalize their actions so that they [...]
Date Published: Nov 14, 2011 - 6:17 pm
Date Published: May 23, 2011 - 8:27 am
If you are faced with surviving infidelity, then one thing I am
sure you are struggling with is the subject of trust. As betrayed
spouse’s, we now are extremely leery of anything our spouse’s say
because we now know they are liars. We no longer trust what we hear
them saying because all during their [...]
Date Published: Apr 11, 2011 - 10:45 am
If you haven’t gone through a spouse’s affair then you have no idea
the pain and devastation that is involved and how hard on someone
surviving infidelity truly is. In the beginning stages of just
finding out about the affair, you are literally balancing in
between life and death. This isn’t just some bad day [...]
Date Published: Apr 02, 2011 - 11:28 am
Healing infidelity is never easy and is impossible to heal from
alone. Many of those suffering from their spouse’s affair believe
they have to do so in private because they are unable to tell
anyone about what is happening to them. This is sad because it’s
almost impossible to do alone. When you are dealing [...]
Date Published: Mar 29, 2011 - 8:13 pm
Did your spouse have an affair and you are now left struggling with
getting over an affair? Are you still in a lot of pain and anger
over their affair? Recovering from infidelity is not easy and it
will take years before you both are healed from this devastation.
Most people don’t like hearing that [...]
Date Published: Mar 08, 2011 - 3:00 am
Are you getting over an affair you spouse had and you are wondering
why you are still in so much pain? Healing from affairs is no easy
task and it can takes years before the pain goes away. Most people
don’t want to hear that but it’s the truth. It took me four and a
[...]
Date Published: Mar 05, 2011 - 3:00 am
Infidelity in marriage is the most devastating thing that can ever
happen to you. When you first find out that your spouse has cheated
on you, your whole world falls apart. It’s very hard to wrap your
mind around the fact that your spouse, the one that claims to love
you can do such a [...]
Date Published: Mar 02, 2011 - 5:30 pm
I have decided to start a new Infidelity Forum and I invite you all
to come join in. I am hoping we can all give each other some good
advice and just help each other because going through a spouse’s
affair is the most devastating thing anyone can go through.
Infidelity Recovery Forum
Date Published: Dec 14, 2010 - 5:49 pm