Summary: BFN - Columnist - Melinda
Melinda is a middle-aged wife and empty nest mother of an adult daughter. She moved often as a child, attending eleven schools in five states, and continued her gypsy existence when her husband joined the U.S. Navy. Her experiences living in nearly every region of the United States have given her insight into both the differences and similarities that shape us, as well as a sometimes unique perspective on life, the universe and everything. Melinda's blog reflects her varied interests, from her large extended family, history and travel to wordplay, weird news and the quirkiness of human nature. She currently resides in Michigan with her wonderful husband and mischievous dog.
I spent yesterday here:
... with
@murisopsis ,
@OldDogSparky
, and three other geocaching friends.
We saw a lot of interesting things, including this scary
face.
It looked even scarier when flames began to shoot out the mouth
and eyes. But when I stepped back for a full view, suddenly it
wasn't scary at all.
I have to pack up my computer and get ready to check out of
the hotel. I'll catch you up on our adventures later. For
now, there is a drive of several hours ahead.

Date Published: May 27, 2012 - 5:17 am
Yesterday was spent learning how to set up and run emergency
shelters. The training finished a little earlier than expected, so
I took the opportunity to kidnap the Homeland Security officer who
was sitting next to me during the training and introduce her to
geocaching. I had none of my gear with me; not even my GPS. But we
found a cache I'd found a year or two ago, still there but harder
to find in summer than it was in late fall. I think I turned my new
friend to the dark side. She gave me her email address and asked me
to let her know next time I'm in her area.
I'd had to get up early to drop Boo at daycare and get to the
training, so I was tired by the time I got home. I started to catch
up on my xanga subs, but next thing I knew I was waking up on the
couch with a sore neck and just enough time to get into my swimsuit
and drive to the pool for water aerobics. You'd think the icy water
might have woke me up; you'd be wrong. I yawned all the way through
the class.
Today I'm preparing to leave for GeoWoodstock.
@murisopsis and
@OldDogSparky are picking me up in the morning and
we're headed down to southern Indiana, just across the river from
Louisville, Kentucky. We're making a brief stop along the way to
meet
@ata_grandma and show her what this geocaching thing
is all about. Come to the dark side,
@ata_grandma !
Friday evening's plans involve tie-dyed shirts and events with
names like "Miles of Smiles Meet & Greet" and "Zombie Horde
Flash Mob" as well as nighttime caching along the river walk with a
view of the Louisville skyline.
I'm still making notes of all the caches on our list. I've finished
the Friday ones and will start in on the Saturday caches later. For
now, I need to walk Boo, put the lasagna together, finish packing,
organize my cache bag, do a load of laundry, get the van ready to
go into the shop tonight, check the mail... In other words, I need
to get off the computer and get moving! I may be able to catch up
with you via the Xanga Mobile App depending on wireless signals
along our route. If I'm not too exhausted I'll look in on xanga and
Facebook from the hotel Friday and Saturday nights.
I'm pretty sure we're all crazy.

Date Published: May 24, 2012 - 7:39 pm
I saw a photo similar to this on Facebook the other day. I wasn't
sure where to find it, so I took my own. The sad thing is that we
actually had some of these things kicking around the house.

Date Published: May 22, 2012 - 1:04 pm
If life is a garden and we are the flowers,
I want to be a ditch flower.
I have no pretensions to superior breeding,
no delusions of delicate beauty.
I am common.
I hope that, like the flowers that spring up behind the guard
rail,
I am tough,
tenacious,
resilient;
Able to flourish wherever the wind takes me.
I want to be that splash of vibrant color around the curve
that causes people to pause on their journey
and marvel at the unexpectedness of me.

Date Published: May 21, 2012 - 3:17 pm
Hope your Sunday is peaceful!

Date Published: May 20, 2012 - 4:35 pm
We tore up the 5K!
UPDATE:
@Joyouswind and I walked for
Lory's Place this
morning. Lory's Place was founded by Hospice at Home to meet a need
they perceived in the region. Community and corporate support,
along with fundraisers like this morning's 5K Run, Walk and Rock
allow Lory's Place to offer free grief counseling. It was begun
with emphasis on helping children ages 3-18 through the grieving
process. They are now able to offer their services to children,
adults and families. Joyouswind's employer offered to cover the
registration fee and sponsor any employee who wished to walk, plus
one friend or family member of each employee. I was Krysten's Plus
One.
We arrived at the starting area around 8:15 AM. We had planned to
get there by 8:00, but we had to park further away than
anticipated. There were 1,198 people registered for the 5K.
Krysten was #1000.
I was #1001.We had tags on our shoes to monitor our route and
time.
Those who weren't able to run or walk could rock for the
cause.
Participants were quickly sorted into starting groups. First
the runners, followed by the joggers.
The walkers brought up the rear.
It was much too hot to wear the official shirt. I left mine
in Krysten's car. Krysten thought she might wear hers, but
ended up tying it around her waist like many other walkers
and runners. I felt sorry for the German shepherd in the
photo above. He was wearing a fur coat AND a hot event
shirt.
The route took us past the marina...
... along the lighthouse pier...
... past this little lakeside cottage that was for
sale...
... and a house with a giant bubble blower in the front
yard.

At least that's what I'd use it for if it was in my front
yard.
Krysten and I weren't trying to win any medals; we took
our time and enjoyed the stroll, finishing in just over
an hour. Krysten finished in 28th place for her age
group; I finished in 43rd for my age group.
We were all set to leave after a cup of water and a
snack, but a chance meeting with a friend who has run
this 5K before changed our minds. She clued us in that
after all the medals were handed out, they drew names
to give away the rocking chairs. Guess who won a chair?
ME! Poor Krysten; they drew #1001 and a few minutes
later they drew #999.
We had driven from Krysten's apartment in her little
Cobalt and she had no ropes, cords or bungees so we had
to get creative. I ended up using my event shirt after
all.
By 11 AM the rocking chair was loaded in my van and
we were sitting in Baguette de France enjoying
sandwiches. It was a fun morning, and 5K (just over
3 miles) was the perfect distance for me. Brett and
Krysten are walking in the Crop Walk (10K)
tomorrow.

Date Published: May 19, 2012 - 6:02 pm
@Bookmark61 showed me
this article on Geek.com that explains how
different social media sites work using the analogy of eating
doughnuts. I had to laugh, especially at the G+ analogy.
How do you think Xanga fits in the doughnut analogy?
What kind of doughnut best describes your site?

Date Published: May 18, 2012 - 4:58 pm
Not a whole lot to catch you up on. I've been riding my bike around
the residential streets of The 'Duh, which is about 95% of the
village. I haven't gone any great distance yet; I'm still trying to
get used to riding again. It's been about 35 years since I was last
on a bicycle. It feels good. I mean, my knees hurt a little while
I'm pedaling and my butt hurts when I get off the bike, but I love
the feel of the wind in my face and the sense of freedom just like
I felt when I was a kid and got my first bike. I'm eventually going
to have to start looking for a few accessories, like a pump and a
vehicle rack, but for now I'm just enjoying wheeling around the
village streets. In related news, I got my first sunburn of the
year yesterday. Time to start remembering the sunscreen!
I've been reading The Dresden Files series of books. I've finished
the fifth book. I ordered the DVDs of the TV series and about the
best I can say is that it passes the time.
Still doing water aerobics, tai chi, Red Cross courses and
volunteering, geocaching and trying new recipes. Last night was
coconut chicken with mango and pineapple salsa. It was pretty good,
but not as good as the fried chicken, cornflake chicken, savory
chicken, garlic lime chicken, creamed chicken, or grilled chicken
we have routinely rotating through the menu.
There's a fun little survey going on over at Huffington Post. I
know, I know - they're like the National Enquirer of the internet,
but occasionally they accidentally post something interesting. This
time it's voting for America's spookiest cemetery. I just found out
about it today and it's already in the semifinal round. You should
go
HERE and vote for Glenwood, MS. It's actually
Glenwood Cemetery in Yazoo City, Mississippi. I've been there, and
I've seen the witch's grave with the broken chain surrounding
it.
You can read about the witch and her curse, the fire that
destroyed Yazoo City and the mysteriously broken chain
HERE.
And that's all I've got time for today. I need to walk the dog,
pick up the mail, run to the grocery store, and have dinner cooked
in two-and-a-half hours. It's time to get moving.

Date Published: May 17, 2012 - 6:47 pm
I'm not sure whether any of you noticed that I haven't been around
as much lately. I've tried to get on xanga in spare moments to read
and comment, but that's been a little hit or miss, especially if
your blog has slipped off the first page of my inbox. I apologize
for not being as attentive as I should have been, but I'm not sorry
for the reason I've been away so much.
In early March, severe storms swept across the country and caused
widespread devastation, including an area of southern Indiana that
was pretty much wiped off the map by tornadoes. In the past few
years, tornadoes have struck Fort Smith, Arkansas where my sisters
live; Yazoo City, Mississippi where my nieces and nephew live;
Joplin, Missouri which is where I turn south when I'm driving to
Arkansas; rural Oklahoma where
@WildWomanOfTheWest lost everything she owned, and
now an area of southern Indiana near Louisville, Kentucky where I
am planning to attend GeoWoodstock in less than two weeks.
Tornadoes have intruded on my placid life in the past two or three
years. A small F1 tornado even struck right here, about a mile from
my beloved 'Duh. I've seen the damage in some of those places; I've
seen the changes in other places where buildings and trees that had
stood for more than a century are gone.
For some time now, I've been considering volunteering with the
American Red Cross. I would like to go to those places that have
been devastated by disaster and bring basic needs; food, water,
clean-up kits, hugs and hope to people whose lives have been turned
upside down. The tornadoes in southern Indiana were the last straw.
I drove to the nearest Red Cross office and offered my services. I
was immediately enrolled in several training courses all over the
region to learn about the history of the Red Cross, disasters and
how the Red Cross responds (Allegan, MI); how to care for people
involved in a disaster (Battle Creek, MI); how to perform data
entry using the saba software program (online course), the role of
various agencies (including the Red Cross) in a radiological
emergency (Cassopolis, MI), Basic Food Safety (online course);
Defensive Driving (online course); and most recently, the role of
the Emergency Response Vehicle (ERV) and how to operate it
(Kalamazoo, MI).

An ERV parked outside the Red Cross building in Kalamazoo,
MI.
I still need to get First Aid and CPR certifications (probably in
South Bend, IN) in order to get my ERV driver certification, but I
stayed behind after class and took the driving test in the rain on
unfamiliar roads and I passed. I'd never driven anything that big
before, and I've never had a garage so I'd never had to park a
vehicle of any kind in a garage until last Saturday. My very first
time to do it, and it was an ambulance-shaped truck with no back
window and only about three inches of clearance on each side. Not
to mention the instructor was standing behind the ERV giving me
hand signals so besides worrying about taking off a side mirror, I
was a little concerned about squishing the instructor against the
back wall of the garage. But it all worked out in the end. It took
me four tries to get the ERV lined up properly, but I did it and no
mirrors or instructors were damaged in the process.
I have more training ahead; Shelter Operations, Shelter Simulation,
Psychological First Aid, Helping People With Disabilities, First
Aid, CPR... I'm also volunteering at the local chapter once a week
to answer phones. I make a lot of mistakes, but they appreciate me
anyway. In the next few weeks I'll begin doing data entry. Some
day, I'll earn my vest and I'll be out there when disaster hits,
doing something to help.
Volunteering with the Red Cross has been one of my steps in the No
Fear process. I have gone to unfamiliar towns and cities and found
the building I needed, introduced myself to new people, learned new
things. I've driven a truck bigger than anything I've ever driven,
and I backed it into a snug space in a garage. I've pushed myself
to learn a very confusing software program, and I'm answering
phones in an office where I don't know the answers to most of the
questions I'm asked. For a shy person like me, these are huge steps
in overcoming deep-seated fears.
Here's my challenge to you: If I can do these things, you can too.
Maybe not the exact same things, but you can take steps to overcome
your fears. It's a beautiful, empowering feeling to take hold of
your fear, shake it out and show it who's boss. I'm in the process
of doing that. Don't wait as long as I did. Be bold, be strong,
have No Fear.

Date Published: May 15, 2012 - 2:22 pm
Wow - I got the coolest Mother's Day gift ever! It's so cool, I'm
good until Christmas. Maybe even Valentine's Day. My
daughter and my
husband
got me a new set of wheels for Mother's Day. Yellow, with brown
seat and accents and turquoise rims.
Wanna see it?
It's a Huffy "Panama Jack" bicycle.
Accessories include a faux wood carrying rack...
... a saddlebag and bottle holder (just right for my Jamaican Me
Happy winecooler!)...
... and a bottle opener.
... and a reminder of my goal for 2012.
I cried a little when Krysten took me outside to give me this
gift. The last time I got a new bike it was for my birthday. I
can't remember what brand it was, but I do remember that it was
glittery, metallic purple and had a banana seat and a sissy bar
(and eventually a bunch of cards clothespinned to the spokes).
It had been enough years since I'd been on a bicycle, I could
count them in decades (plural). But that old saying is right;
you never forget. After getting the seat adjusted so I could
reach it and still bend my knees enough to put my feet on the
pedals, I hopped on and pedalled to the end of the street and
back. As I picked up speed on the way back, I suspect a
"WOOHOO!!!" escaped
me.
I didn't have time to ride it more than that one little test
drive because we had tickets to see
Dark Shadows and had to get going,
but I'm thinking I'll take it out for a longer ride before I do
my volunteer gig this afternoon. Maybe down to the township
park and back.
I can sense all kinds of new adventures opening up to me! This
"No Fear" thing is becoming more fun than scary!

Date Published: May 14, 2012 - 6:10 pm