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Refining Interpersonal Communication
I don’t care where you are, or what type of interaction you are
involved in, you are always negotiating. Every day, in some way
shape or form, you are vying for a top spot, offering some
compromise or otherwise working to get something from someone else.
You spouse wants to go out for Chinese, you want to go for steaks…
Your kid wants to play PlayStation and you want them to take out
the trash… Your mother needs you to paint her porch and you want to
play golf… All of them, negotiations. Many people find this task
intimidating, but [...]
Date Published: Jul 20, 2010 - 11:36 am
In this post we will be dealing with the second and third
components of the CAPA model, which are attention and positive
affect. As you can imagine, if you’re message is going to be
persuasive, it needs to gain their attention first. Think about it
for a second… Which audience do you think would be more palatable:
One that is hanging on your every word, or one that is yawning and
looking at their watches. Now your content and subject matter is a
constant. Although you can indeed make changes in the ways in which
it is presented, it “is [...]
Date Published: Mar 09, 2010 - 10:57 am
Political and Professional Speech Writing In knowing full well that
the rest of the world doesn’t want to believe this, as a species we
are very much a stimulus/response “mechanism.” For the person
attempting to take the lead in controlling of their life, this can
be problematic. For the person attempting to take the leadership
role in relation to a certain group of lives, this can be a gift…
By and large, we (as human’s) respond very predictably to specific
types and modes of information. This refers to not only the way in
which it is communicated, but also to [...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 2:41 pm
Communication Coaching Communication coaching refers to the formal
assessment, prescription, training and evaluation services that I
proved with respect to any field of communication, whether this be
personal or professional. So this includes the areas of
negotiation, questioning/interrogation, persuasion, sales &
marketing and interpersonal & couples communication, among
others. The truth of the matter is that communication pervades
every avenue of your personal and professional lives. In many
instances, this can be in an insidious fashion… If asked, the gross
majority of the population will tell me (and you for that matter)
that they are highly effective communicators. Unfortunately, that
[...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 2:03 pm
Witness Preparation – Effectively preparing a witness for trial is,
if done properly, a massive undertaking. Decisions made by both
Judge and Jury will be heavily weighted by a number of factors
including: The appearance of the witness including skin, hair,
clothing and mannerisms, The themes, anchors and verbiage used by
the witness, Clarity, accuracy and speed of responses to questions,
Underlying presuppositions of their statements, Heuristic processes
manifest in their current cognitive environment, Informational
priming, etc… If you aren’t taking all of the above factors into
consideration, along with a number of others from the fields of
evolutionary, cognitive [...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 11:51 am
The seminars and workshops below occur bi-annually. Please see the
Communication Genome Project Calendar to find the next event of
interest and where it will be held. As always, please feel free to
contact me for further details via the form below. Events Strategic
Negotiation and The Board Room Seminar 3 day– This is a 3 day
seminar covering the preparation, strategy, and execution of
effective negotiating in the real world. Adhering to (and taking
advantage of) the predictable functionality of the human brain as
social, cognitive and evolutionary psychologists see it. Effective
Couples Communication Workshop 3 day – This [...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 11:34 am
What Do I Offer? In conjunction with my efforts as the founding
partner of a prestigious and highly successful Executive Recruiting
Firm, I am an Executive and Communication Coach. What exactly does
this mean? Well, I help you identify communication oriented
challenges in your professional and/or personal lives, and remedy
them. I am not going to waste my time by wasting yours with a bunch
of sales hype and BS… My educational, experiential and professional
backgrounds, along with my book (The Communication Genome Project,
pending publication, see the Table of Contents) and the information
I provide on my blog speak [...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 11:19 am
The CAPA Model and Effective Presentations Inc. magazine
interviewed me last week as part of an article about improving
presentation skills. As a part of my preparation for the meeting, I
put together a quick outline to help my interviewer better
understand the content I wanted to review. As a loyal reader of my
blog, I thought/think that you deserve to benefit from this just as
much as the Inc. readers. Likewise, it is unrealistic to think that
they will place all of this information in the article. As such,
the Inc. readers that have found their way over can [...]
Date Published: Feb 15, 2010 - 9:52 am
The Communication Genome Project With an educational background
from one of the best political science programs in the world and a
blossoming career in executive recruiting, I came to an important
conclusion very early in my career; strategic and effective
communication was (and still is) the single most important tool
that a person can possess. This sparked what has been an ongoing
journey of research, study and deployment of some of the most
effective communication and persuasion methods available. A few
things became very evident to me early in the process of seeking
out these skills and this information. First, [...]
Date Published: Feb 12, 2010 - 9:43 am
Modify The CGP Calendar
Date Published: Feb 11, 2010 - 2:58 pm