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Looking For The Secret Of How To Attract a Man?

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Why do some women instictly know How to attract a man and some women do not? I will discuss on of the keys to finding your soul mate in this article.

Remember when your second or third grade teacher were always telling you to pay attention? What that means today is practicing awareness...awareness of what you are thinking and feeling



Engaging your awareness of your internal world and then marrying that with an enhanced ability to sense the internal world of the guy you are dating, tells you if he or she is the ONE!

That is How to attract a man.

Here’s the deal

Here is an amazing concept. When you practice being mindful, paying attention, your ability to sense the internal world of others increases.

Your ability to perceive nonverbal emotional signals from dates is also enhanced. In addition, what you are experiencing in your own internal world is more in your conscious awareness.



If I only loved him more… Have you ever said this to yourself?

Have you ever stayed in a relationship even though it didn’t feel 100% right.

Have you stayed even though there was a nagging doubt in the back of your mind? Well, I have.

I had that nagging doubt, but I said to myself ‘If I only love him more, it will be okay.’

You guessed it. I spent a lot of emotional energy loving him more and more and more, then after five years, he wanted more – more than me.



If I would have been truly mindful of myself, at six months I would have said thanks it’s been fun, but I need to date around.

Instead, I spent five years committed to a relationship that had no long-term future.

I turned down advances from other men.

I wonder how my life would be different had I just listened to my first grade teacher and paid attention to what I was feeling deep inside and not just on the surface.



He was a good catch. He was cute and a true outdoors man. He introduced me to a lot of new adventures – hiking, rock climbing, caving, and whitewater kayaking.



I was also caught up in my in-the-moment feelings – he was fun to do things with. I also thought that if he wasn’t my boyfriend, I wouldn’t be able to do those things. What I was paying attention to was my feelings of insecurity.



Herein lays the paying attention key for how to find true love. He and I did those activities for a few years, but then my interest turned to different adventures.

My horizon broadened beyond just physical adventure and challenge. And, as I became more of who I really was. I decided to go to graduate school. I started putting my wants and needs first.



Before long Mr. Adventure found another playmate

When I had to study, I wasn’t the on-demand playmate anymore. So, he found someone new to play with.

When I had to study, I wasn’t the on-demand playmate anymore.
It was going to happen sooner or later. Luckily for me, I was exploring what I wanted for m.

Many women devote years to a man and their Mr. Adventure leaves them struggling with the question ‘Who am I, if I’m not part of this relationship?’



The best relationship advice for women

is to pay attention to yourself and how you feel. Listening to your inner nagging feelings can save you years of misdirection. Listening and then respecting, not discounting your inner feelings is one of the keys of how to attract a man.

-Colleen Brady-The True Love Coach

Discover The Secrets of How To Attract Mr Right with Colleen Brady's FREE audio course "7 Little-Know Keys to The Greatest Adventure of Your Life - Finding True Love."

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