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marriagengossips updated Sun Jan 30 2011 4:22 am EST

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By saying "I do" during the wedding is a commitment between two people, but whether the relationship can last or not depend on the difference thoughts of both partners. Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed; whereas women are motivated and empowered when they fell cherished. It is just how two people can compromise on their differences on how to build lasting male-female relationship. Marriage partners should learn how to read individual's mood and to respond effectively. Both the couple must get what you need without seeming to nag or bully. Communication can help to create lovely feelings and avoid the pain of arguments. Men must always remember that; A woman's tendency to be compulsive relaxes as she remembers that she is worthy of love. She does not need to earn it; she can relax, give less and receive more because she deserves it. Without the awareness that men and women are supposed to be difference, it always makes them at odds with each another. We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth. More than often, we expect our spouse to be more like ourselves, desire them to "want what we want" and forcing them to "feel the way we feel". Most of the time, we have mistakenly assume that if our partner love us, they will react and behave in certain ways like; the ways we react and behave when we love someone. At such instant, men too mistakenly expect women to think, communicate and react the way men do. While on the other hand, women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate and respond the way women do. The mistake is that we have forgotten that men and women are supposed to be born with much difference either physically or mentally. As a result, it will cause our relationship packed and filled up with bags of conflicts and unnecessary frictions. Do remember that clearly recognizing and respecting these differences dramatically reduces confusion when dealing with the opposite sex. Thus it is important to sort out the difference by communication and compromising on difficult situations, in order to maintain your marital relationship promptly.