Summary: The Day I Quit Smoking
My journey from hopeless smoker to non-smoker, the revelations on the way and the certainty of success.
Sunday 21st February 2010 marked the end of my first year as a
non-smoker, I am officially (according to life insurance companies)
a non-smoker!!! I can now get non-smoker insurance rates, another
saving to the money I have already saved by NOT buying cigarettes.
I reckon that since I stopped smoking I have saved just short of
£1000. This is a significant sum to me and has focused me to just
how much money I have wasted during my life, killing myself with
cigarettes.
I thought it would feel different to be a non-smoker for a year,
that I would want to throw a party or some other sort of
celebration. The truth is that not smoking has now become the norm
for me and it seems silly to celebrate something that is part of my
everday life. Celebrations are for achievements, life changing
events etc. I should have thrown the party on the day I quit, that
was more signicant than celebrating an anniversary.
For me to not smoke for a whole year is quite a personal
achievement, I haven't been this long without cigarettes since the
age of 12. I have quit before, but never for this long. This time
as I have stated before on this blog I will stay a non-smoker for
good, smoking no longer tempts me and I can see it for what it
really is, a complete waste of time and money.
If you are yet to quit smoking please read through my other posts
and think about when you will stop. It is not difficult if you
understand how to stop, it is not difficult if you truly want to
stop. If you have already stopped, well done to you, we belong to
the same club, the successful one!
Quit
Smoking NOW!
Date Published: Feb 22, 2010 - 2:42 pm
It is that time of year again when most of us make a New Years
Resolution to improve our lives in some way or another. Most of us
will fail and go back to our bad old ways within 6 days. Women
usually last a day longer than men, on average. How many people
will resolve to quit smoking this New Year and start 2010 smoke
free? I never personally ever tried to quit at New Year, too much
pressure to succeed. I quit in February instead when all the focus
is on other things and so far I am now over 10 months smoke
free!!
However, with the right tools and right frame of mind you should be
able to quit anytime, you just have to want to do it. If New Year
is your chosen time to quit then follow a few simple rules:
- You must want to do it and have made up your own mind to
quit, don't do it because others are pressuring you or you will
fail.
- Decide to do it and look forward to quitting, it is one of
the single most brilliant things you can do for yourself as a
smoker, be happy about it.
- Choose a method and stick to it, I don't recommend cold
turkey, use some support or proven method.
- Don't give up, you can beat your addiction, it just takes a
little bit of effort.
I have written my own short guide on preparing to quit smoking
that you get here
My Free Report
It costs nothing, give it a read and I hope it will help you. It
contains sound advice on quitting written from my own experience
and research, the same that has lead to me being smoke free for 10
months. I am a very happy non-smoker now and I hope you can become
the same.
If you are trying to quit go ahead and you have my best wishes,
have a prosperous and smoke free New Year.
Date Published: Dec 30, 2009 - 4:29 am
At work the other day I was asked by a colleague if I was still
"off the fags". I happily replied yes, in fact it has been over 8
months since I quit smoking and I was very proud to confirm that I
am still a non-smoker. "Me too" she replied with a big smile and
stated that she had quit three weeks ago and was determined to not
smoke again. I congratulated her and during our short conversation
it was apparent that her mindset had a significant component to it.
She stated that she had stopped smoking, not given up smoking. This
is a clear indicator of the right mindset to quit smoking. She had
recognised the psychological significance of the phrase "giving
up". If you give something up then you are denying yourself a
pleasure so when smokers decide to give up smoking they are already
at a disadvantage and less likely to succeed than the smokers who
decides to just stop doing something that is harmful to them.
Quitting is simply just that, it is stopping doing something with
no loss, you have just stopped an act not given anything up, not
made a sacrifice, just stopped.
It is this way of thinking that helped me to quit successfully and
I hope anyone reading this who is thinking of quitting or is
struggling after quitting finds this helpful. To your sucess in
quitting.
Date Published: Nov 13, 2009 - 3:06 am
Addiction to nicotine is one of the hardest things to kick, that
you will ever come across if you just try to go cold turkey. Many
studies have shown that it is one of the most addictive substances
known, as addictive as cocaine or heroin, and most people will
become dependant on it soon after they start smoking. When you
smoke a cigarette, your body receives an instant rush of nicotine -
there is a spike in your nicotine levels which slowly dissipates,
over approximately 20 minutes. When your nicotine levels drop below
a certain point you will crave another hit, in the form of another
cigarette.
As a smoker, wanting to become a non-smoker you will need to
consider how you will tackle your body's physical addiction to
nicotine and how you will relieve the cravings that can make
quitting smoking so difficult. The most important thing in any
attempt to quit smoking is your frame of mind, and how you mentally
approach quitting. The chances that you will succeed are increased
dramatically by having a positive approach to quitting and
believing in yourself, if you approach quitting with fear then your
chances of success are extremely slim. In some cases, however,
people have found great benefit from using a medical aid to assist
their confidence in quitting and provide a degree of reassurance.
The most common and well known aids to quitting smoking are those
that supply and regulate nicotine in the bloodstream. These did not
work for me but I think that at the time I relied solely upon the
NRT aid to make me quit.
One of the most popular choices is nicotine gum. This is gum that
resembles ordinary chewing gum, but of course it contains a
regulated dose of nicotine. The reason that some people find
nicotine gum effective is because it can replace the cigarette, in
providing the nicotine hit in their bloodstream that they are
craving, thus relieving the pain and fear that manifest with
addiction cravings. The problem that some people run into with the
nicotine patch - the other popular nicotine replacement aid - is
that a nicotine patch supplies a steady amount of nicotine into
your bloodstream. There is no spike, or "hit", as with a cigarette,
and for this reason some people still find themselves craving
cigarettes when they use the patch. This has happened to several of
my friends and to me, the last time I used a patch about ten years
ago. Even though the body is receiving nicotine, it desires the
hit, the rush of nicotine that the cigarette provides.
With nicotine gum, you can attempt to replicate this hit without a
cigarette and all the other harmful chemicals that come along with
it. The gum is not chewed like normal gum, there is a special
technique. Rather than chewing like normal gum you only chew until
you can taste the nicotine (not very pleasant at first) then you
hold the gum in your mouth without chewing until the nicotine
subsides. Then give it a few chews every time you want a release of
nicotine, as much as you would when taking a drag on a cigarette
for a quick nicotine hit. A typical guideline for nicotine gum
would be to chew it 3-4 times, until you feel a tingling sensation,
at which point you should flatten it and place it between your
cheek and gum. Repeat the brief chewing process at occasional
intervals as necessary. Under no circumstances should nicotine gum
be chewed like ordinary gum, as too much nicotine will be released
into your bloodstream at once, you will probably feel sick. I did,
yes, I didn’t read the instructions first time.
Nicotine Gum comes in 2mg and 4mg strengths (the 4mg is recommended
if you smoke more than 20 cigarettes a day.) It is recommended that
you use the gum every 1-2 hours throughout the day, for a period of
up to 3 months. The only drawback of nicotine gum is that you
cannot drink anything except water for 15 minutes before and during
chewing. For this reason nicotine gum isn't helpful at a bar, which
is where many ex-smokers need the most help. Despite this, nicotine
gum can be an effective tool -- when combined with your
determination and frame of mind -- in an attempt to quit
smoking.
Date Published: Oct 20, 2009 - 12:56 pm
I've had a really busy Summer and missed my 6 month quit update,
with holidays, my birthday and getting sick with 'flu I have just
not found the time to update. I'm back now and just as focussed as
always on remaining a non-smoker. I have actually reached 7 months
quit today. I very rarely think about smoking anymore, the
situations that I used to associate with smoking are becoming less
and less significant and the thought of ever smoking again is
getting less and less appealing.
I do remember what it is like to smoke and I still can understand
why smokers smoke. I can still relate to that feeling of defiance,
that feeling of making up excuses to justify my disgusting habit.
It just makes me more determined to stay quit.
Staying quit is a subject that I am going to try to focus on for
the next few posts. I have done lots of research as you will know
if you have read any of my previous posts. If you search the
vastness of the internet on the subject of quitting smoking you
will find lots of methods on how to quit. Some of these are
featured on my other site
"Quit Smoking With Nick" and are very popular
and successful methods of quitting. What I have not found much of
is material on the subject of staying quit.
We all know that quitting smoking can be difficult, it can also be
very easy. We all know that it usually takes several attempts to
quit for good, why is this? If the quit smoking methods are so good
why do we at some time start to smoke again? Is it because there is
a lack of support and motivation for those who have quit? Every
resource, course, method etc. is aimed at the smoker, what about
the recent smoker? What about that person who quits and maybe two
years later starts again, what support is there for the relapsing
smoker to prevent the relapse? After much searching I can say not a
lot. If you think that you might find some help with staying quit
useful or would just like to throw in some ideas then please mail
me at nick@quitsmokingwithnick.com
One quick idea is to find another hobby or interest to throw your
energy into and the number one that I came up with after talking to
ex-smokers is losing or keeping off the weight after quitting
smoking. You don't have to put weight on when you quit but some
people do and it is a major reason why some people start smoking
again. If you are having a weight after quitting problem check this
out,
Fat Burning Furnace, it looks pretty good.
Date Published: Sep 21, 2009 - 1:37 pm
Millions of people all around the world smoke, pouring billions of
their money into the pockets of the tobacco industry. To many,
particularly those that have been smoking for a long time, the
prospect of quitting smoking seems very daunting. An addiction to
smoking is a serious and complex one. It manifests itself in both a
physical way, in that your body craves the nicotine the cigarettes
contain, and a psychological way, in that your mind has been
conditioned to believe that you have to smoke or terrible things
will happen to you. To overcome this two sided assault it is
important that you come up with a plan of attack in order to quit
smoking. Although the cold-turkey or willpower technique works for
some people, the vast majority of smokers will have success only
with a more comprehensive and detailed plan with the right amount
of preparation.
When you first start considering quitting smoking, it will probably
seem so far away from where you are as a smoker that to reach it is
either impossible or just too hard to start. Keep in mind that
thousands of people a year, people that were also smokers just like
you, quit smoking. If they are able to do it, there's no reason
that you can't. Many smokers also feel that after a certain time
spent smoking it is "too-late" to quit, that there is no benefit
and the damage is done. Simply put, this isn't true, and is nothing
more than an excuse to avoid the attempt to quit smoking. The
health benefits of quitting smoking begin the very day you stop and
apply to anyone, anytime.
Before you actually have your last cigarette, begin to visualise
yourself as a non-smoker. Visualisation is a very powerful
psychological weapon in the battle to quit smoking. When you think
about your everyday activities imagine yourself doing them without
the cigarette break. Spend a lot of time thinking of the reasons
that you want to quit smoking. If you have no worthwhile reasons to
quit, why should you do it? Think of as many as you can and write
them down. Learn about the health benefits of quitting, not just
for yourself but the people around you as well, such as your
children or other members of your family that are exposed to your
cigarette smoke. Do the maths and come up with some figures for the
amount of money you'll save by not buying cigarettes, then think of
something you'll use that money for. It is essential to get your
mind in the right frame for quitting.
Once you have achieved the right frame of mind it's time to plan
having your last cigarette. To give you an idea of what will
happen, understand that the human body is incredibly resilient, and
that your health will improve as soon as you stop smoking,
literally within 20 minutes your blood pressure will drop down to
normal levels as the nicotine starts to leave your body. 8 hours
after your last cigarette, carbon monoxide levels will drop and
oxygen levels will rise in your blood stream returning it to normal
levels. At 24 hours after your last cigarette, you statistically
reduce your chance of a heart attack. Only 48 hours after your last
cigarette, your sense of taste and smell will improve as your nerve
endings start re-growing.
By coming up with a concrete and achievable plan to quit smoking
you will greatly increase your chances of success. It is crucial to
understand how being in the right frame of mind will affect your
chances of success. Knowing why you are quitting and believing in
yourself, in your attempt to quit are also essential. Once you've
stopped consider yourself a non-smoker, and to help, remind
yourself of the health benefits you will be experiencing
immediately after putting out that last cigarette.
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Date Published: Jul 30, 2009 - 7:55 am
Quitting smoking can be difficult and daunting due to the two sides
of addiction that it presents. Every type of addiction has a
chemical or physical side and a mental or psychological side. These
two combine to present a powerful barrier when trying to free
oneself from the particular addiction. One weapon that should be in
every addicts arsenal when trying to beat addiction is knowledge of
the enemy. This article specifically looks at nicotine addiction
and the effect it has on every smoker. It also looks at the nature
of nicotine itself, what effects it has on the body and how its
grip makes quitting smoking a difficult task.
According to the 1996 National Household Survey on Drug Abuse,
around 62 million people aged 12 and older in the United States
smoke cigarettes. This makes nicotine one of the most heavily used
addictive drugs in the US. When a smoker inhales cigarette smoke it
takes about 7 seconds for the nicotine in the smoke to be absorbed
into the blood stream and affect the brain. It takes up to two
hours for enough nicotine to leave the body to cause a craving.
Nicotine then starts to affect the body's reward system similarly
to other addictive drugs such as cocaine. It has the overall effect
of increasing alertness and enhancing mental performance. Nicotine
affects the cardiovascular system by increasing heart rate and
blood pressure and restricting blood flow to the heart muscle.
Nicotine also stimulates the release of the hormone epinephrine
which is a "fight or flight" hormone with a powerful effect on the
nervous system. Another hormone that nicotine promotes the release
of is beta-endorphin which inhibits pain.Nicotine itself is a
colourless oily compound and if you were to inject it directly into
your bloodstream you would die, as it is quite a strong poison,
40-60mg of nicotine would be a lethal dose to a human. In fact its
natural function in plants of the nightshade family is as an
anti-herbivore chemical to prevent the plant being eaten. This is
why nicotine has been widely used in the past as an insecticide,
bear this in mind next time you smoke a cigarette or as you try to
quit smoking.
Nicotine content in cigarettes has actually slowly increased over
the years, and one study found that there was an average increase
of 1.6% per year between the years of 1998 and 2005. One could take
this cynically and suggest that a smoking industry with so much
hostility towards it in legislation and campaigning is fighting
back by trying to drug its smokers into continued loyalty.
There is no doubt that nicotine is a powerful and addictive drug,
according the American Heart Association "Nicotine addiction has
historically been one of the hardest addictions to break." It has
their interest as nicotine has links to circulatory disease. As a
stimulant it raises blood pressure and makes it harder for the
heart to pump blood through the body. This causes the body to
release fats and cholesterol into the blood stream possibly adding
to the risk of failure in peripheral circulation.
Nicotine is only one of the 400 or so damaging substances in
tobacco smoke, I think you will agree that it does enough damage on
its own to warrant special attention. When you next think of
quitting smoking, think about what nicotine does to you and what
effect it has on your body, how nicotine keeps you addicted to
smoking and how you can take steps to beat it.
Date Published: Jul 26, 2009 - 3:33 pm
Can't believe I've done it, but I have. Almost at half a year as a
non-smoker so I decided to try to find out how my body had changed
and this is the best list I could find:
* In 20 minutes your blood pressure will drop back down to
normal.
* In 8 hours the carbon monoxide (a toxic gas) levels in your blood
stream will drop by half, and oxygen levels will return to
normal.
* In 48 hours your chance of having a heart attack will have
decreased. All nicotine will have left your body. Your sense of
taste and smell will return to a normal level.
* In 72 hours your bronchial tubes will relax, and your energy
levels will increase.
* In 2 weeks your circulation will increase, and it will continue
to improve for the next 10 weeks.
* In three to nine months coughs, wheezing and breathing problems
will dissipate as your lung capacity improves by 10%.
* In 1 year your risk of having a heart attack will have dropped by
half.
* In 5 years your risk of having a stroke returns to that of a
non-smoker.
* In 10 years your risk of lung cancer will have returned to that
of a non-smoker.
* In 15 years your risk of heart attack will have returned to that
of a non-smoker.
I can certainly vouch for the increased circulation and lung
capacity. I can now exercise with ease and don't get anywhere near
as breathless as I used to. Also I had a very dodgy big toe on my
right foot, the nail had gone a sort of grey colour and was split.
I happened to notice that it has become very pink and healthy
looking again. This is quite worrying as I was probably headed for
a circulatory disease, hopefully I quit in time and the return of
the pink colour means I have reversed the damage.
Getting ready for the 6 month mark which will be just before my
birthday in August, double party!!
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Date Published: Jul 24, 2009 - 9:02 am
This is a myth I can personaly say truly is a myth. I am not saying
that no-one who has stopped smoking hasn't gained weight, I am
saying that they aren't essentially linked. One does not
necessarily cause the other. Gaining weight is usually a
consequence of eating more not stopping smoking, although suddenly
dropping the stimulant nicotine can reduce your heart rate to a
more normal level and cause less of your energy to be used up. This
is where you have to start using more energy with your new fitter
body. I went running today for the first time since I stopped
smoking 20 weeks ago and for the first time I can remember I did
not feel like throwing up afterwards.
Most people who gain weight when they stop smoking do so because
they are substituting food for cigarettes. Instead of smoking they
are eating....bad move. Substitution ultimately will lead to
failure. The dependancy has not been removed, it has been
transferred and can easily transfer back to smoking, especially
when a weight gain is noted. The only way, in my opinion, to
successfully stop smoking is to remove the dependancy. This is more
of psychological journey than a physical one, one where your
attitude to smoking has to fundamentally change. A change of
thinking will remove the need to substitute and weight will not be
an issue.
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Date Published: Jul 11, 2009 - 9:47 am
Watching television last night I was reminded how difficult and
daunting it can be to stop smoking even when faced with a life
threatening situation. I was watching a reality show about Accident
and Emergency departments in hospitals. A patient was admitted with
severe chest pains and it was later confirmed he had suffered a
heart attack, he was 42 years old......
42!. He was overweight and he smoked.
When he was inteviewed at home after making a recovery he explained
that he had adopted a healthier lifestyle. He had changed his diet
and ate much more healthily. He had not, however, stopped
smoking.
It is to be applauded that this person made the choice to change
his diet, accepting that one of the reasons for his heart attack
was what and how much he ate. It amazed me though that he did not
apply the same reasoning to his smoking. Smoking had made a hugely
greater contribution to his situation than his diet, why couldn't
he see this?
Then I remembered what it is like to be a smoker, the fear of being
without, the terror of facing a life without cigarettes, terror all
caused by the mental conditioning that comes with addiction to
nicotine. Even when faced with death from heart disease at 42 this
guy could not let go of his smoking. That is very powerful mental
conditioning. This is the sort of person I wish I could communicate
with directly, to show them there is a way out. All I can hope is
that people read this blog and take some sort of inspiration to
change their lives.
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Date Published: Jun 24, 2009 - 5:24 am
I have been smoke free for four months now. It is now starting to
feel normal to be a non-smoker.I went to a party last night and
spent most of the night in the garden (it is Summer after all),
this meant being surrounded by people smoking. Just after I stopped
smoking this would have made me feel very uncomfortable, very
nervous about how I would deal with the situation. I think the
uncertainty of how I would behave is more unsettling than actually
dealing with being around smokers. Four months on and with the
experience to support me I now feel quite comfortable around
smokers and safe in the knowledge that I am in no way tempted to
smoke.
I also got off my high non-smoker horse last night and didn't try
to convert anyone to quitting :). The feeling of normality helps a
great deal when faced with smoking situations, it also helps to
observe other non-smokers, they aren't affected by people smoking
around them so why should I be? If you have recently quit keep at
it, life begins to get more normal.
This 4 month milestone is something to be celebrated, now is the
time to start developing your new found clarity of mind and energy.
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Date Published: Jun 21, 2009 - 5:43 am
After some very hard work I have finally finished my first report
about quitting smoking. I did a lot of research and examined how I
have tried, failed and finally succeeded in quitting smoking. I
hope everyone who reads this finds themselves closer to quitting at
the end. It is not too long, only 12 pages but I think (and my
friends who proof read it tell me) that it is full of relevant and
insightful information. This is how I prepared to stop smoking and
I hope you will too.
You have to give an email address to download it. If you absolutely
object to doing so post a comment and I will provide an alternate
link.
Here is the link
My Free Report go download and enjoy.
Any comments are welcome I will try to answer all.
Nick
Date Published: May 27, 2009 - 11:53 am
Well here we are, 3 months now as a non-smoker and still counting.
I think it is important to keep track of how you are doing when you
undertake something as life changing as stopping smoking. Some
would argue that focusing on your progress makes it harder as you
are thinking about smoking all the time as you measure how you are
doing. I disagree, I would encourage anyone quitting smoking to
think about it, but think about it in the right way. It is all a
question of attitude, as is quitting in the first place. If you
think about smoking in a way that you feel you are missing
something, then chances are you will start again someday. If you
think about smoking as something you needed out of your life, like
a bad relationship, for example, then there is no harm in focusing
on it. It makes you more determined to never let it back into your
life, just like that person who may have hurt you.
If you have quit, keep going, keep counting, every day you don't
smoke is a success and should be celebrated. If you are thinking of
quitting, go for it, it will be one of the best decisions you have
ever made. Also keep looking back here I am about to release a new
report titled "10 things to do before you quit smoking". This will
be a free download, I am currently putting the finishing touches to
it.
To your success as a non-smoker!!!
Date Published: May 24, 2009 - 6:11 am
That is officially the score, I have now been a non-smoker for 2
months. I was going to post this on Sunday but that was only 8
weeks, this is properly 2 calendar months. It has got easier and
easier to stay quit, I still have no desire to smoke. I will
occasionally get a very brief urge when I do a task that I
associated with smoking in the past or I visit somewhere that I
associate with smoking for the first time since becoming a
non-smoker. These urges are very brief and easily overcome. The
most recent example was last Saturday at a birthday party. The
party was a 40th and was being held at the same place as a 40th I
went to last year, as a smoker. I associated the venue, the party
and the people I was with, with a time when I smoked. That was
quite a powerful combination but still easily overcome by
remembering exactly what the benefits of smoking are: NONE. In the
end it was quite amusing watching the smokers scuttle off outside,
missing the fun, while I remembered what that was like and really
was glad that I didn't do that anymore.
Here's looking forward to the next month smokefree.
Date Published: Apr 21, 2009 - 11:38 am
Wow it has now been over 6 weeks since I quit and smoking is
becoming a distant memory. I was lucky enough to be able to face
and pass a test this weekend. It was my mother's birthday so we had
a party for family and friends, my cousin with whom I used to slope
off to smoke, was there. He is still a smoker and I wanted to find
out if I would have a desire to smoke when he did, old habits and
all that. I survived the test with no trouble whatsoever, in fact I
felt very smug at how I didn't feel the slightest inclination to
smoke. Poor chap he was the only smoker there and I felt a little
sorry for him, you could tell he felt a bit like an outcast and
went to hide down the drive to smoke.
I am taking time off this week for the Easter holidays to spend
some time with my son. It is also a new test for my resolve to stay
a non-smoker, I always smoked more at home than away but so far
this week everything has been fine, no desire at all.
More and more it seems that smoking is dying as an occupation among
all the people I know. Let's hope the non-smokers to be increase in
number every day.
Date Published: Apr 08, 2009 - 4:45 am