If walking up to one girl that you do not know, is a stressful
situation for you; Then it must be extremely difficult to walk up
to a whole group of beautiful women you never met. However it is
very important that you get over this approach anxiety quickly,
as most women will be out with girlfriends, and it's absolutely
vital that you have the ability to walk up to a group of lovely
ladies, and become a part of their group, with your charming
charisma and attitude if you ever hope to succeed in meeting more
women.
The way I like to approach a group of beautiful woman is a to
begin the conversation with the one that looks the most
receptive, or the girl that seems to be talking the most, who is
the most outgoing. This also might be the one that the most
drunk. Or if you see a girl in the group that you vaguely know,
this can be your doorway to getting her to introduce you to her
friends. After all, you can tell her she's being rude if she
doesn't introduce you to her girlfriends immediately. It's a
great way to get your foot in the door. We'll thank Mystery for
that one...
Now here's the really cool part, don't really pay that much
attention to the girl that you're really interested in. Instead
pay attention to the other girls in the group, and kind of ignore
your interest. If she seems to be the center of attention, you
can even joke about her to her friends like "wow, how can you
stand to be around this girl, she's so obnoxious". The girls will
often joke and laugh, and maybe even join in, and make fun of
their friend. Now you're in the door.
At this point you can shift your attention to the girl that you
were originally interested in, and now build rapport with her. By
first acting like you are not interested, and then kind of
noticing her, and then giving her attention is a great way to
come in under the radar, and make the girl actually happy that
you're talking to her. She'll feel is that she's earned something
special by getting your attention.
It's absolutely vital that you engage the entire group at all
times however, and every girl in the group must like you. If even
one of the girls in the group is disapproving, she'll snatch the
whole group from under your nose before you can blink. So be
polite, and talk to all the women in the group, and keep them
interested in you. Once the friends like you and accept you,
getting your target to walk over the bar with you alone for a
drink will not be a big deal.
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