Once a man has given up on trying to get a girlfriend, the
chances are he probably never will. I heard a story once about
how the circus uses a chain to keep new elephants securely in
place. The young elephant will pull and pull on that chain, and
not be able to break it. After a while they young and immature
elephant just gives up. After a couple of weeks the circus can
replace the chain with rope, because the will of the elephant has
already been broken.
The ironic thing is that if that elephant had not given up, he
could've easily broken the rope and gained his freedom. Your past
failures do not have anything to do with your current success.
You must never give up in life or working at getting into a
committed relationship easily.
Men known as pickup artists have devoted themselves fully to
learning how to turn himself in to the alpha male who attracts
women naturally. With dedication a nerdy boy who plays videogames
and Dungeons & Dragons can easily learn how to score with the
hottest girls around by only taking the time to read the great
material these PUA guys have already wrote!
A good place to start, if you've made up your mind that you want
to have more women in your life, would be called Inner Game or
defeating approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is the fear of
walking up to a beautiful woman whom you've never met, and
attempting to get a date or more right there.
Inexperienced men, unlike the PUA, will put a high value on her
looks, and assume because she is extremely beautiful, that she
would not want to be with him. They fail like the elephant before
even trying. It is vital that you learn that all people are
equal, no matter of what they look like. All men have just as
good of a chance of getting together with an extremely beautiful
woman as even the richest, and most handsome men; if you can be
the man that woman is looking for.
Once you conquer your fears of approaching beautiful women, you
will have defeated approach anxiety. The next vital aspect to
cover is Inner Game, which means getting your confidence level up
so high, that you truly believe you can get any woman you want,
and that every woman wants you! I mean really believing that, and
coming off to a beautiful woman that you really don't care if you
see her again or not. This will actually make you very attractive
in her eyes, and turn the tables. Now you become the hunted!
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