Feeling rejected? Everyone doing better than you? Insecure and
threatened by those around you? Lacking confidence and
self-worth.
These feelings are very common and often result from an inferiority
complex.
I feel certain you want to get
rid of the inferiority complex.
There are a number of simple steps that can help.
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1. Stay away from individuals who bring our feelings of low
confidence and insecurity in you. You don't like meeting with them
so why do it.
The same applies to social occasions. If you do not fancy it, give
it a miss.
Keep doing it and sooner or later you won't get the invitations.
Only attend if you feel like it.
2.Remember that you as a person are worth a great deal. You have a
value that is substantial. Do not forget that people can and do
take notice of you. We all have something to give.
Within this though be aware that you do have limits, everyone does.
Especially in the early stages as you try to
get rid of an inferiority complex. Stay within what
you think you are able to do.
Regular small steps are better than occasional large ones.
3. . Remember that you are as good as and perhaps even better than
some of the people you work, or live with. No person can do
everything and you can do more that you might believe.
Keep arrogance in check and try to remember to apply a light touch
to everything. Keep a smile on your face and other folks will like
you and you will be able to relax in their company. Allow a
friendship to grow with time. Never rush things Friendships are
things which build slowly over time. This is the natural way of
things.
4. Find out more about ways to
get rid of an inferiority complex. There is a great
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can help you. You are not alone with this problem and many, many
people have suffered like you and then beaten the problem.
Be strong and just remember to value yourself.
Date Published: Oct 30, 2008 - 5:56 am